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Hello everyone,
So i'll be going on a first date tomorrow - and i need advice. Which do you think is the most flattering & beautiful?
Also some context: we'll go brunching, then probably going on a walk along a nice lake and whatever else he planned - but it should probably be raining. Not planning to wear a jacket tho, i'll take an unbrella. He said he liked outfits with multiple colors which is why i made the first one an option as well. I like it, but generally go more for elegant and 1-2 colors.
If you have any advice on what kind of jewelry you'd use with the outfit you prefer, that's welcome to.
Thanks already! I'm really nervous!
Update (sorry, quite long): thanks for chiming in, everyone. I honestly never expected this to get as big as it did. Tbh, this whole thread has made me quite insecure way too close to the date. I know you guys didn't mean anything bad with it, but telling a woman that her whole style is terrible (putting this in my own words) can be quite discouraging.
As you might have guessed, I am a quite "strictly" modest person. And yeah, a lot of those outfits are ones i wear to work or church as well. Haven't been on a date in 1.5 years and I also have recently lost 17kg of weight. Idk, lots of things to add to me getting easily insecure about this whole thing.
Btw, no he's not a red flag for twlling me how to dress. I was (obviously) unsure about what to wear, so i asked him his preference. He also reassured me i'll look beautiful in anything i wear as long as i feel good.
Anyways, this whole thing made me so insecure that i told him about the whole thing and ended up sending him all the options + even some more and let him pick. In the end, i liked all the outfits and am comfortable in all, so it was a huge relief that i knew what he liked most.
I went with a totally different dress in the end: https://imgur.com/a/mKUg6cF
The date was a bit mixed for me, still need to think about if i want a second one. He was quite late because of his navi (he was very very sorry and also did warn me as soon as he knew, so i'm not too mad, but still). Apart from that, i just have to think about our compatibility. It actually did end up raining and we had to walk back to the car for 30min through the rain - but, as a cute ending, we actually ended up dancing in the rain.
As i said, very mixed. But well, he already told me he wants to keep getting to know me, so that's that.
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So i'll be going on a first date tomorrow - and i need advice. Which do you think is the most flattering & beautiful?
Also some context: we'll go brunching, then probably going on a walk along a nice lake and whatever else he planned - but it should probably be raining. Not planning to wear a jacket tho, i'll take an unbrella. He said he liked outfits with multiple colors which is why i made the first one an option as well. I like it, but generally go more for elegant and 1-2 colors.
If you have any advice on what kind of jewelry you'd use with the outfit you prefer, that's welcome to.
Thanks already! I'm really nervous!
Update (sorry, quite long): thanks for chiming in, everyone. I honestly never expected this to get as big as it did. Tbh, this whole thread has made me quite insecure way too close to the date. I know you guys didn't mean anything bad with it, but telling a woman that her whole style is terrible (putting this in my own words) can be quite discouraging.
As you might have guessed, I am a quite "strictly" modest person. And yeah, a lot of those outfits are ones i wear to work or church as well. Haven't been on a date in 1.5 years and I also have recently lost 17kg of weight. Idk, lots of things to add to me getting easily insecure about this whole thing.
Btw, no he's not a red flag for twlling me how to dress. I was (obviously) unsure about what to wear, so i asked him his preference. He also reassured me i'll look beautiful in anything i wear as long as i feel good.
Anyways, this whole thing made me so insecure that i told him about the whole thing and ended up sending him all the options + even some more and let him pick. In the end, i liked all the outfits and am comfortable in all, so it was a huge relief that i knew what he liked most.
I went with a totally different dress in the end: https://imgur.com/a/mKUg6cF
The date was a bit mixed for me, still need to think about if i want a second one. He was quite late because of his navi (he was very very sorry and also did warn me as soon as he knew, so i'm not too mad, but still). Apart from that, i just have to think about our compatibility. It actually did end up raining and we had to walk back to the car for 30min through the rain - but, as a cute ending, we actually ended up dancing in the rain.
As i said, very mixed. But well, he already told me he wants to keep getting to know me, so that's that.
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