<!-- SC_OFF -->The dress code is: 'what you would wear to church.' On one hand my family HATES my transition but on the other the other family doesn't even know. So I'm worried about making a splash or taking a bunch of attention away from the bride/groom and standing out too much and I just want to fit in and enjoy myself. (A small part of me wants to be as hot as humanly possible just to piss off a few people who REALLY hate me) I have no idea if I should dress boy-ish or girly. Cause like, I fear I'm either going to look like the awful evil trans person, or the dyke lesbian. I just, ya know, don't want to make a statement. Feel like I'm darned if I do, darned if I don't. <!-- SC_ON -->