<!-- SC_OFF -->*no dress code because I’m a BM, but we will be in the typical outdoor wedding space* lights, grass, all that jazz. Bridesmaid in my sister’s wedding and I bought the purple/red style dress, but now I wish I went with the other one. The color itself will be the purple, but I feel like the blue style flatters me more and the straps can be worn 4 different ways. I am overweight and originally thought the purple dress made my body shape look smaller, but now I think it looks like I’m spilling out of it. I had the straps taken in because the bust was too big, but it made the back really tight. I don’t know what to do. I can try to order the other style in time, but it will be another $200 and I don’t know if I can justify that. I need advice! <!-- SC_ON -->